How Do You Know If a Kid Loves You? Signs You Should Look For

Honestly, trying to figure out if a kid loves you can feel like a puzzle sometimes, right? I mean, kids don’t exactly hand out love notes or say “I love you” on command like adults do. But there are subtle signs, if you pay attention. And trust me, I know because I’ve been there. I’ve been around a lot of kids—nieces, nephews, and even kids I’ve mentored—and over time, I’ve learned to spot those little things that show affection. So, how do you really know if a kid loves you? Let’s dive in.

They Want to Spend Time With You

Okay, this one is pretty straightforward. Kids have a lot going on, you know? They’re constantly running around, playing, and doing their own thing. So, if they actively seek you out, want to hang out with you, or even ask you to play with them, that’s a pretty good sign.

I remember this one time when my little cousin Leo (he was about 5 years old) would drag me into his playroom every time he came over. He’d just sit there, building Legos and asking me to “help” even though he clearly knew what he was doing. At first, I thought it was just because I was the closest adult in the room, but after a few weeks, I realized: he just liked being around me. Kids don’t waste time on people they don’t have a connection with.

They Show Physical Affection

Okay, if a kid is comfortable enough to give you hugs, hold your hand, or even just cuddle up to you during movie time? That’s love. Kids show affection physically, and it’s usually pretty obvious when they feel safe and loved. I know, it can be a little awkward if you’re not used to kids getting all touchy-feely, but honestly, it’s a clear sign that they trust you.

I remember when my friend Sarah was babysitting her niece for the first time. At first, the little girl was shy and distant. But by the end of the day, she was holding Sarah’s hand while they walked around the park, and even gave her a big hug before leaving. Sarah was literally glowing, and it was clear that this was her niece’s way of saying, "I love you."

They Ask About You

This is one that I only noticed recently, and it really hit me. When a kid loves you, they’re interested in you. They want to know what you like, what you do, and how your day was. My friend Dan was talking about his niece, and how she would always ask him what his favorite color was or what his hobbies were. Not just once, but consistently. She would ask him the same question over and over, but in a way that showed she cared about his answer.

It’s funny how kids do that, right? It’s like they’re trying to understand you as a person, not just an adult in their life. It’s a solid sign that they have some level of affection toward you.

They Imitate You

Okay, so this one might sound a little odd, but it’s actually a big one. Kids love to imitate the people they care about. If a kid starts mimicking your actions or speech, it’s a clear indicator that they admire you.

I had this one experience with my nephew, Max, who started copying everything I did after I spent a few days hanging out with him. He’d put on his sneakers the same way I did, or even try to use the same phrases I’d use when something went wrong. It was adorable (and a little funny), but it also made me realize that he was trying to bond with me in his own way. He wanted to be like me, which is a huge sign of love and respect from a kid.

They Get Jealous When You're Not Around

Okay, I’ll admit it – this one caught me by surprise. I’ve seen kids act out a little when they’re jealous, but I didn’t really understand it until I noticed it happening with my friend Emma’s daughter. The little girl was fine when Emma was around, but whenever Emma paid attention to someone else, the girl would suddenly act pouty or clingier than usual.

This might seem a little negative, but if a kid gets a little jealous when you’re not giving them your full attention, it usually means they’ve formed an emotional attachment to you. And honestly? It’s kind of sweet in a way. They just want to be around you because they love your presence.

They Include You in Their World

One of the biggest signs a kid loves you is when they include you in their activities. If they invite you to be part of their play or even make you a part of their little world (their imaginary games, showing you their drawings, etc.), it’s a clear sign they trust you and want you involved in their life.

I’ll never forget the first time my niece, Lily, made me a “menu” for dinner when I was visiting her family. She “prepared” some pretend food, and made me sit down for a meal with her and her stuffed animals. I could tell she loved me in that moment, because it was like she wanted me to feel special in her little world.

They Open Up to You

Kids are known for their honesty (sometimes to a fault), and when they start telling you their secrets or talking about their feelings, that’s a pretty powerful sign of affection. It might start with small things—like telling you about their favorite TV show or sharing their worries about school—but if they’re opening up to you, they trust you.

I remember when my best friend’s son, Jake, began talking to me about his fears at school. It was a random conversation, but it made me realize just how much he trusted me. Kids don’t just open up to anyone, and when they do, it’s because they feel safe and loved.

In Conclusion: Look for the Small Things

Honestly, kids are a bit like open books when it comes to showing love—it's just that you have to pay attention to the little things they do. Whether it’s physical affection, wanting to spend time with you, or sharing their world, these are all signs that a kid loves you.

If you ever doubt it, just think about all those times they want to hang out with you, ask about your life, or get upset when you leave. Those are the moments that show a deep connection. It’s pure, honest love, and honestly? It feels pretty amazing to be on the receiving end of it.

So, what signs have you noticed from the kids around you? Have you seen any of these? Let me know—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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