What Are Things Guys Find Unattractive? Surprising Truths!
It’s Not Always About Looks (Seriously!)
Alright, let me be real with you. Just last week, my buddy Alex and I were chatting over beers, and he blurted out, “You know what? It’s not even about how a girl looks. It’s the small stuff that can totally kill the vibe.” That made me stop and think — wait, really?
See, many people assume men only care about physical appearance. But nope, it’s way more layered. Sure, attraction has a visual side, but emotional and behavioral cues matter a ton too.
So, what are some things guys honestly find unattractive? Let’s break it down (and yeah, some of these might surprise you).
Personality Traits That Turn Men Off
Constant negativity
Look, life’s hard, we all get that. But if someone is always complaining, seeing the worst in everything, or playing the victim, it gets exhausting. Alex told me once he dated someone who always had a new drama — co-workers, family, friends, strangers — every single day. He admitted, “At first, I felt bad for her… but then I realized, she kinda loved the chaos.”
Honestly, who has the energy for that long-term?
Being overly controlling
Here’s the thing: guys appreciate when a partner cares, but when it crosses into constant checking, criticizing, or micromanaging? Big red flag. One guy I know (okay, full honesty, it was me) once ended things with someone because she had to approve every plan, every hangout, every text. At first, I thought, “Oh, she’s just organized.” But after a while? I felt suffocated.
Physical Habits That Kill the Mood
Poor hygiene
It’s not about looking perfect 24/7 — far from it. But basic care matters: clean hair, fresh breath, showering regularly. It’s kinda wild, but a survey I read (I forget where, sorry!) showed that bad breath ranked even higher than physical features in turn-offs.
Excessive fake appearance
Now, this one’s tricky. Many guys love when someone enjoys makeup, fashion, and personal style. But if it feels too artificial (like layers of heavy foundation, exaggerated filters on every pic), it can create a sense of disconnect. Alex once told me, “I just want to know who I’m actually looking at, you know?”
Emotional Disconnects That Push Men Away
Lack of passion or ambition
Believe it or not, men often admire women who are driven, curious, and enthusiastic about something — anything! It doesn’t have to be career; it can be hobbies, goals, travel dreams. I dated someone once who constantly said, “I don’t know, I just kinda exist.” And over time, I realized I was craving deeper conversations and shared excitement about life.
Jealousy overload
A little jealousy? Okay, it can even be cute. But constant accusations, phone-checking, or passive-aggressive digs? Exhausting. Alex told me about a past relationship where if he even smiled politely at a waitress, he’d get icy silence all evening. “It’s not worth it, man,” he sighed. And I get it — trust is key.
Wait, Could I Be Wrong Here?
You know, while writing this, I started wondering: are these things really universal, or am I just projecting my own experiences? Maybe some guys do like a bit of chaos, or prefer a partner who wants to be fully involved in every detail. I guess the biggest takeaway is that what’s unattractive to one person might be totally fine — or even attractive — to someone else.
Final Thoughts: Focus on Connection, Not Perfection
At the end of the day, no one’s perfect. You’re not perfect, I’m not perfect, and that’s fine. What matters most is finding someone whose quirks, habits, and energy vibe with yours.
Have you ever been surprised by what someone found unattractive? Or caught yourself being turned off by something unexpected? Drop me a message — I love hearing these stories. And hey, maybe we’ll all learn a bit more about what really matters in attraction.
How much height should a boy have to look attractive?
Well, fellas, worry no more, because a new study has revealed 5ft 8in is the ideal height for a man. Dating app Badoo has revealed the most right-swiped heights based on their users aged 18 to 30.
Is 172 cm good for a man?
Yes it is. Average height of male in India is 166.3 cm (i.e. 5 ft 5.5 inches) while for female it is 152.6 cm (i.e. 5 ft) approximately. So, as far as your question is concerned, aforesaid height is above average in both cases.
Is 165 cm normal for a 15 year old?
The predicted height for a female, based on your parents heights, is 155 to 165cm. Most 15 year old girls are nearly done growing. I was too. It's a very normal height for a girl.
Is 160 cm too tall for a 12 year old?
How Tall Should a 12 Year Old Be? We can only speak to national average heights here in North America, whereby, a 12 year old girl would be between 137 cm to 162 cm tall (4-1/2 to 5-1/3 feet). A 12 year old boy should be between 137 cm to 160 cm tall (4-1/2 to 5-1/4 feet).
How tall is a average 15 year old?
Average Height to Weight for Teenage Boys - 13 to 20 Years
| Male Teens: 13 - 20 Years) | ||
|---|---|---|
| 14 Years | 112.0 lb. (50.8 kg) | 64.5" (163.8 cm) |
| 15 Years | 123.5 lb. (56.02 kg) | 67.0" (170.1 cm) |
| 16 Years | 134.0 lb. (60.78 kg) | 68.3" (173.4 cm) |
| 17 Years | 142.0 lb. (64.41 kg) | 69.0" (175.2 cm) |
How to get taller at 18?
Staying physically active is even more essential from childhood to grow and improve overall health. But taking it up even in adulthood can help you add a few inches to your height. Strength-building exercises, yoga, jumping rope, and biking all can help to increase your flexibility and grow a few inches taller.
Is 5.7 a good height for a 15 year old boy?
Generally speaking, the average height for 15 year olds girls is 62.9 inches (or 159.7 cm). On the other hand, teen boys at the age of 15 have a much higher average height, which is 67.0 inches (or 170.1 cm).
Can you grow between 16 and 18?
Most girls stop growing taller by age 14 or 15. However, after their early teenage growth spurt, boys continue gaining height at a gradual pace until around 18. Note that some kids will stop growing earlier and others may keep growing a year or two more.
Can you grow 1 cm after 17?
Even with a healthy diet, most people's height won't increase after age 18 to 20. The graph below shows the rate of growth from birth to age 20. As you can see, the growth lines fall to zero between ages 18 and 20 ( 7 , 8 ). The reason why your height stops increasing is your bones, specifically your growth plates.